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		<title>Comment on How to Influence Without Authority by Mark Petruzzi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Petruzzi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jesse;

When I made the original reply, I was thinking of inspirational leaders, who, through their thought leadership and *articulated* vision (be it in spiritual, or more mundane domains), have resonated with those whom may not even know them—thus influencing others to gain new perspectives, and from those new perspectives, make different choices.

With your clarification, you brought additional focus and cogent reasoning to your own approach and choices here (for me). Therefore, no further argument from me!

Thank you for your careful consideration of my suggestion! :)

All the best,

~M</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jesse;</p>
<p>When I made the original reply, I was thinking of inspirational leaders, who, through their thought leadership and *articulated* vision (be it in spiritual, or more mundane domains), have resonated with those whom may not even know them—thus influencing others to gain new perspectives, and from those new perspectives, make different choices.</p>
<p>With your clarification, you brought additional focus and cogent reasoning to your own approach and choices here (for me). Therefore, no further argument from me!</p>
<p>Thank you for your careful consideration of my suggestion! <img src='http://seapointcenter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>All the best,</p>
<p>~M</p>
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		<title>Comment on 3 Activities to (re)Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mahesh, I hope I did not give the impression that this is all one needs to do to create a vision. My intention was to drill down on this very important first step that too many people skip over or only touch on lightly. Without connecting to what you deeply desire, you will have a shaky foundation.

I especially like your list of self-reflection questions. I think some of them would be helpful in connecting with what you deeply desire. You might appreciate a few of my earlier posts on how to create a vision. Click on &quot;vision&quot; in the list of categories in the left sidebar of this page. And (at the risk of being a little self-promoting), I also suggest you check out our book &lt;a href=&quot;http://seapointcenter.com/full-steam-ahead/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Full Steam Ahead! Unleash the Power of Vision&lt;/a&gt; which outlines all of the steps in creating a vision in detail.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Mahesh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mahesh, I hope I did not give the impression that this is all one needs to do to create a vision. My intention was to drill down on this very important first step that too many people skip over or only touch on lightly. Without connecting to what you deeply desire, you will have a shaky foundation.</p>
<p>I especially like your list of self-reflection questions. I think some of them would be helpful in connecting with what you deeply desire. You might appreciate a few of my earlier posts on how to create a vision. Click on &#8220;vision&#8221; in the list of categories in the left sidebar of this page. And (at the risk of being a little self-promoting), I also suggest you check out our book <a href="http://seapointcenter.com/full-steam-ahead/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Full Steam Ahead! Unleash the Power of Vision</a> which outlines all of the steps in creating a vision in detail.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Mahesh.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dig Below Your Dreams to Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:05:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Julie, Thanks to you - for your kind words, and also for highlighting the importance of clearly communicating your dreams and goals to others. Too often people keep their dreams a secret and lose the opportunity for support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Julie, Thanks to you &#8211; for your kind words, and also for highlighting the importance of clearly communicating your dreams and goals to others. Too often people keep their dreams a secret and lose the opportunity for support.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dig Below Your Dreams to Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
		<link>http://seapointcenter.com/discover-your-vision/comment-page-1/#comment-3808</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Indeed! It requires effort and intention to translate vague desires to specific thought and articulation, but it is the key to choosing the best goals. Thanks for making this point, Susan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Indeed! It requires effort and intention to translate vague desires to specific thought and articulation, but it is the key to choosing the best goals. Thanks for making this point, Susan.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dig Below Your Dreams to Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your inspiring thoughts, Stavros.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your inspiring thoughts, Stavros.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dig Below Your Dreams to Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 23:02:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Thabo,

You make an interesting point about why some people jump too quickly to set goals without being clear about where they are leading. It is overwhelming to try to figure out the &quot;how&quot; and crystalize the vision at the same time. To some extent it is an iterative process because the closer we get to our vision, the more clear it becomes, and we need to realign (and sometimes change) our goals. But I agree with your point about the importance of separating these as two distinct processes. Thanks for extending the conversation.

I enjoyed your post &lt;a href=&quot;http://fit4thabo.blogspot.com/2012/05/vision-youve-got-to-see-it.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Vision, You&#039;ve Got To See It&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Thabo,</p>
<p>You make an interesting point about why some people jump too quickly to set goals without being clear about where they are leading. It is overwhelming to try to figure out the &#8220;how&#8221; and crystalize the vision at the same time. To some extent it is an iterative process because the closer we get to our vision, the more clear it becomes, and we need to realign (and sometimes change) our goals. But I agree with your point about the importance of separating these as two distinct processes. Thanks for extending the conversation.</p>
<p>I enjoyed your post <a href="http://fit4thabo.blogspot.com/2012/05/vision-youve-got-to-see-it.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Vision, You&#8217;ve Got To See It</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Influence Without Authority by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 22:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mark,
You make a cogent argument for adding vision to the list. I delayed in responding because I wanted time to consider your suggestion. 
The list I provided is a list of &lt;em&gt;sources of personal power and credibility&lt;/em&gt; - ways to get others to pay attention to your ideas, vision, solutions, etc.

The issue is: I could articulate a wonderful vision, but you wouldn&#039;t listen to me unless I had I had established credibility with you - either through my demonstrated expertise (my ability to articulate a vision that makes sense), our connectedness (my ability to communicate a vision that resonates with your values), etc. 

Also, describing a vision is only one of several ways we can attempt to influence others.

It seems to me there&#039;s another list to consider - the &lt;em&gt;specific kinds of actions you can take&lt;/em&gt; -- once you have established personal power and credibility. That list would include:
- Articulating a vision and build a logical business case
- Appealing to their values and emotions
- Inviting them to participate, create real opportunities for involvement and impact
- Making it easy for them to do what you are suggesting (offer assistance, remove obstacles, provide support)
- Making an appeal on the basis of friendship

You really pushed my thinking on this, Mark, and for that I thank you. It may be that I am unduly complicating this topic, and if you still want to lobby to add vision to my original list, I would not argue further with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mark,<br />
You make a cogent argument for adding vision to the list. I delayed in responding because I wanted time to consider your suggestion.<br />
The list I provided is a list of <em>sources of personal power and credibility</em> &#8211; ways to get others to pay attention to your ideas, vision, solutions, etc.</p>
<p>The issue is: I could articulate a wonderful vision, but you wouldn&#8217;t listen to me unless I had I had established credibility with you &#8211; either through my demonstrated expertise (my ability to articulate a vision that makes sense), our connectedness (my ability to communicate a vision that resonates with your values), etc. </p>
<p>Also, describing a vision is only one of several ways we can attempt to influence others.</p>
<p>It seems to me there&#8217;s another list to consider &#8211; the <em>specific kinds of actions you can take</em> &#8212; once you have established personal power and credibility. That list would include:<br />
- Articulating a vision and build a logical business case<br />
- Appealing to their values and emotions<br />
- Inviting them to participate, create real opportunities for involvement and impact<br />
- Making it easy for them to do what you are suggesting (offer assistance, remove obstacles, provide support)<br />
- Making an appeal on the basis of friendship</p>
<p>You really pushed my thinking on this, Mark, and for that I thank you. It may be that I am unduly complicating this topic, and if you still want to lobby to add vision to my original list, I would not argue further with you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 3 Activities to (re)Discover Your Vision by Mahesh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mahesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 20:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think there should be three more steps 
One Breaking Down that Vision into smaller Milestones (Projects)
Second  Oath or Standards to live by, Rules like What are things I will consistently do,
For what I will never settle for , What are the things I&#039;m going to believe, like that

Second Step : Reality Check
What Kind of person I will have to be in order to achieve that vision?
What are the ways to make it happen?
How is my life going to be in next 5 years if I fail to achieve those milestones?
What I will loose?? What I will suffer from if I failed? 
What are the joys of living that dream? How I will Creat? How I will Contribute?
What I will be thankful for?
What I&#039;m thankful for?

Third Step: Getting Back on track

Series of action steps, thinking process and questions , when I will be struggling</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think there should be three more steps<br />
One Breaking Down that Vision into smaller Milestones (Projects)<br />
Second  Oath or Standards to live by, Rules like What are things I will consistently do,<br />
For what I will never settle for , What are the things I&#8217;m going to believe, like that</p>
<p>Second Step : Reality Check<br />
What Kind of person I will have to be in order to achieve that vision?<br />
What are the ways to make it happen?<br />
How is my life going to be in next 5 years if I fail to achieve those milestones?<br />
What I will loose?? What I will suffer from if I failed?<br />
What are the joys of living that dream? How I will Creat? How I will Contribute?<br />
What I will be thankful for?<br />
What I&#8217;m thankful for?</p>
<p>Third Step: Getting Back on track</p>
<p>Series of action steps, thinking process and questions , when I will be struggling</p>
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		<title>Comment on 3 Activities to (re)Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 18:45:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that working with a partner who does not have a personal emotional stake in your answers can be a big source of support as this is an ongoing process and not a one-time activity. An executive coach can be quite helpful. It can also be helpful to find a partner you respect and support each other. Todd Nielsen describes how working with a partner keeps you accountable in &lt;a href=&quot;http://seapointcenter.com/vision-strategies/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Four Strategies to Make Your Vision a Reality.&lt;/a&gt; Thanks for sharing your insights, Steve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that working with a partner who does not have a personal emotional stake in your answers can be a big source of support as this is an ongoing process and not a one-time activity. An executive coach can be quite helpful. It can also be helpful to find a partner you respect and support each other. Todd Nielsen describes how working with a partner keeps you accountable in <a href="http://seapointcenter.com/vision-strategies/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Four Strategies to Make Your Vision a Reality.</a> Thanks for sharing your insights, Steve.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dig Below Your Dreams to Discover Your Vision by Jesse Lyn Stoner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Lyn Stoner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 18:38:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Margy, You raise some important questions. Hope you check out my next post &lt;a href=&quot;http://seapointcenter.com/rediscover-your-vision/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;3 Activities to (re)Discover Your Vision&lt;/a&gt; - it describes some activities to help people reconnect with what&#039;s really important to them. I&#039;m hoping that others will share some of their ideas as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Margy, You raise some important questions. Hope you check out my next post <a href="http://seapointcenter.com/rediscover-your-vision/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">3 Activities to (re)Discover Your Vision</a> &#8211; it describes some activities to help people reconnect with what&#8217;s really important to them. I&#8217;m hoping that others will share some of their ideas as well.</p>
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